The Thing About Getting Older Is This – Musings From Me As I ‘Grow Up’

he thing about getting older is this: 
You realise that life doesn’t happen as you may have planned, yet you learn to cherish each and every unplanned moment – LIVE
You may be have been hurt or still be hurting yet someone out their has probably been hurt by you – FORGIVE
That in the blink of an eye everything around you can break and shatter with the death of a loved one – APPRECIATE 
You look back and see that a person you didn’t acknowledge may just have been your soulmate? You don’t get that time back – LOVE FREELY  … More The Thing About Getting Older Is This – Musings From Me As I ‘Grow Up’

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Beautiful Love Quotes….

As of late even having been a little betrayed and hurt – I seem to jump onboard the wrong ships (most of which could give the Titanic sinking a run for its money 🙂 ) and for some reason I let the right boats who would sail me to the most beautiful sunsets and provide my own safehaven, loosen their anchor and sail away as they lose patience with waiting for this girl who just simply chooses the wrong ships…. and yet in my heart I am not bitter and remain a true romantic and believer in fairytales as I have seen and experienced beautiful love, real love, in all its beauty, even for a short amount of time and I know that my boat is somewhere in the harbour. A little hidden until I perhaps make the right choice and remain onboard or perhaps my boat has sailed and not found that beautiful sunset and until then, I will wait on its return….

So as a believer in this beauty of love I wanted to share a few of my favourite ( a few as I have more than 1000) but some that resonate and remind me not to drown but to breathe, wait and know I will not stay in this harbour forever… … More Beautiful Love Quotes….

Starting Again Another Year Clear Debbie Bayvel, My Legend Sis (Well 30 Years Later Really As A Hero); As Tough As It Has Been, God Is Good My Little One…

As you approach your 39th birthday my darling Debs, I would never have thought that writing this a year later we would all STILL be struggling a little with one of over 100 battles you my darling angel sis, has endured over the past 30 years in your journey of victory over the dreaded ‘C’. BUT my … More Starting Again Another Year Clear Debbie Bayvel, My Legend Sis (Well 30 Years Later Really As A Hero); As Tough As It Has Been, God Is Good My Little One…

Fall A Little In Love with Love …. Not Only Somebody To Love, Everyday 

Just apt as we approach … Valentine’s Day. Falling in love is divine. It’s boundless, bewildering, irrational, transcendent and impassioned. It awakens the soul to the best parts of our existence. Falling in love is not a restricted extravagance either. We can fall in love repeatedly, and in such a plethora of ways. We can … More Fall A Little In Love with Love …. Not Only Somebody To Love, Everyday 

The Stars Alligned & God Blessed my Amazing Parents 42 Yrs Ago Today! 

My momsy & pops … I can’t believe I nearly forgot but then again I guess you make it easy to forget that you’ve made it 42 years … the springbok rugby player & the beauty queen artist … 6 years of dating before marriage + 3 daughters + 1 Son In Law + 2 … More The Stars Alligned & God Blessed my Amazing Parents 42 Yrs Ago Today! 

Another Update on #LetsBlessBlessings -We Did It.. Let’s Carry on!!

UPDATE ON BLESSINGS – 9th September 2016 UPDATE ON BLESSINGS – 9th September 2016   It was so incredible to see ‘Turbo’ Blessings at our house today, as he starts to do odd jobs for my folks.   He gave me a heartwarming update, that had us both smiling from ear to ear!   Not … More Another Update on #LetsBlessBlessings -We Did It.. Let’s Carry on!!

Happy Birthday Our Beautiful Debs – My Sister, My Hero, My Best Friend, My Heart

  My birthday wishes for our Debs, my thankfulness to our Heavenly Father and my absolute love for my incredible family. Tears do to stream down my cheeks as I write this, my other sis Bronni – We have been blessed with an incredible part of us, our middle sister Debs. Today they are tears of both … More Happy Birthday Our Beautiful Debs – My Sister, My Hero, My Best Friend, My Heart

Dear You…

Note to reader: I’m 33, sitting with my princess – Mia, the Italian Greyhound – listening to Sawyer who has just won The Voice, singing ” A Thousand Years” sob sob and only just realised after some pretty serious relationships, that I have only ever loved one man my father and never truly been head … More Dear You…