realbydlb – My Sisters Range Of Must Have Handmade Sterling Silver Jewelry With Online Deals

June 12, 2013June 12, 2013 JoJo Bayvel16 Comments

4 years ago my incredibly talented sister started her own range of handmade Sterling Silver Jewelry.

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I wanted to share a few of these 925 silver pieces on my blog, simply, because, they are beautiful and the only jewelry I wear. (ps I am fussy with jewellery and won’t even walk into the gaudy and kitsch jewellery stores situated in most exclusive malls).
After doing a course in jewellery design and opening a studio/workshop in our garage… much to my chagrin due to the fact that I now have to park outside – of the double garage, Debs started making beautiful pieces, from silver bracelets, earrings, necklaces, rings for women and even mens rings and her range has gone from strength to strength! Attracting popular sites selling jewellery online, wanting to list her sterling silver jewellery to niche jewellery stores wanting to stock her pieces.

Here are a few deals running currently on silver jewelry pieces I love – even silver jewelry wholesale prices are 4 times more!

Sterling Silver Realbydlb Statement Bracelet

There is always that one piece in a jewellery collection that stands out as a “must have” item for girls and ladies! Introducing the realbydlb statement bracelet. Beautiful, Classic, Perfect for everyday wear and its personalised so you make a statement to the ones you love by having their names, important dates or nicknames etched on your keepsake forever!

These are ideal as bridesmaid gifts for wedding jewellery or as a “spoil yourself gift”. These beautiful bracelets come with one disc and you can then select a shape/charm (stars, lovebirds) of your choice to create your real statement bracelet, fill of gorgeous and special sterling silver charms like the heart in the pic below.

LISTED now at 25 PERCENT OFF on www.yesbabydaily.com these bracelets are selling for R 480 !!!! It’s really simple to look classy when you can visit websites selling online jewelry and buy signature pieces!

Click here to purchase

Tiffany Jewellery Style Sterling Silver Jewellery Sideways Cross Necklace

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This handmade sterling silver sideways necklace is the ultimate in chic, trendy and fashionable yet timeless accessories! It can be made as a bracelet… although I wear my necklace everyday with whatever outfit I choose….. from jeans and a vest to corporate suits… to my fabulous winter flannel jammies!
On Sale Now At R 350 save R 30 on orders placed before the end of June. Email debs to order here

Sterling Silver Promise Rings

Instead of owning a huge collection of costume jewellery, that is sold to every Tom, Dick and … Sally and has no sentimental value or wearing cheap rings that break, chip and last a month or two, rather say something special to; or about a loved one with this selection of stamped personalised silver rings made as promise rings not only to a partner but anyone or thing in your life!

My Russian silver wedding bands say “Against all Odds” and I, my sisters, mom and aunts wear them to signify debs battle and victory over Cancer.

My stack rings (also ideal as sterling silver engagement rings or even wedding rings) are etched with the names of my sisters, dogs and a quote I love “The prettiest thing you can wear is a smile”.

And just because “love is not written on paper, for paper can be erased. Nor is it etched on stone, for stone can be broken. but it is inscribed on a heart and there it shall remain forever” I added these gorgeous realbydlb red heart stack rings

Prices range from R 400 – R 1900. Email debs to request a quote here

Must Have Rings For Women Who Are Fashion Conscious And Enjoy Standing Out From The Crowd!

To end this blog off (I will be posting again shortly on realbydlb) remember this blog is about stuff I love – we have this chunky, white peace sign resin handmade sterling silver ring for the ultimate in trendy and shabby chic – It’s my Winter/Summer/Autumn and Spring 2013/14 must have item! Resin can be in your choice of colour as can the symbol!

Email debs@realbydldjewllery.com to request a q uote here

Hope you enjoy!

Love
Jo-Jo

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31 Things I have learnt turning 31!

May 31, 2013May 31, 2013 JoJo Bayvel3 Comments

They do say that the “Dirty Thirties” are possible the best years of your life, you “discover” who you really are, you learn what you want and what you REALLY don’t want etc. etc. etc.

I decided to share 31 things I’ve learnt in my 31 years on this planet, “Ode to the wisdom of the aged”, – some of these are fun, some important, and some just plain outrageous!

1. You don’t always learn from your mistakes, you will most likely repeat them over and over.

2 .Less is more in terms of Make-up and Hair Styling.

3. Clothing is meant to show class not ass.

4. Your gut instinct is worth more then anyone’s word or even Google for that matter.

5. The men you have loved and lost (in my case lost not loved) may have hurt you or disrespected you but they only made you a stronger and wiser person. No Regrets.

6. Your relationship with your family should be nurtured and treasured these people are in your life forever, through the good times and bad and if you treat them right they will never let you down.

7. Friends come and go let the ones who judge and belittle you go, keep the ones who jump in the gutter when you have fallen in yet again!

8. Animals are selfless creatures that just need love and attention don’t forget about them as they get older always remember they devoted their whole lives to loving you

9. Don’t try define yourself as black and white because there’s so much hiding in the grey areas that could surprise even you!

10. Men may come and go, which worries the older girl, but instead of holding onto the wrong one, wait for the man who will hold your hand and heart forever.

11. I have a problem with owning too many clothes and then getting dressed and never having anything to wear.

12. Did I mention I have a shoe addiction?

12. I have become a jeans, vest and slip slops kind of girl. It’s me, it’s comfortable and my dog prefers it.

13. You don’t always have to look for the most intelligent and recognized individuals (by the world) to find a hero and mentor, most often they exist within the people you interact on a daily basis.

14. Don’t drink and drive you never know how it could effect your life and that of another person in the future – it takes a second for an accident to happen which could leave a child fatherless forever!

15. When someone gives you a compliment say thank you and then shut-up!

16. Everyone has insecurities, surround yourself with people who make you forget yours.

17. If you believe in something with your whole heart never give up on it.

18. Never let anyone tell you,you can’t do anything ! You CAN as long as your heart is willing!

19. You stay in shape by training and keeping a healthy diet not taking medication and other substances.

20. Reading stimulates your mind ,no one can take education away from you! If you find yourself bored go read some books peeps you will find it more healing then a coffee and gossip session.

21. You will be disappointed often in life. Pick yourself up, learn from the experience and keep smiling.

22. The only thing worry and stress achieve are more wrinkles!

23. Treat people the way you would like to be treated even if they don’t appreciate it you will be the happier person

24. Be well groomed but don’t hide behind a mask of good looks, looks fade but laughter doesn’t

25. Faith will get you through anything! Be still and know that He will love you always.If a door is closed you are not meant to enter!

26. Don’t let resentment live in your heart it will ruin only you!

27. Chocolate should be a banned substance ! Okay no wait …….. Yip banned !

28. Be thankful everyday to the man who came up with the idea for sushi

29. Learn something new everyday and find someone who wants you to teach them what you have learnt.

30. Keep healthy, one day when you want to have babies remember everything you put in your body is absorbed by theirs!

31. Don’t let people tell you that the “clock is ticking”, hold out for you hero, the man who will love you when you look your worst, who will understand PMS and who lets you cry on his shoulder even if he watches TV whilst doing it. Let him be the man who loves you for your smile, quirkiness and intelligence not your hair and underwear!

Live, Laugh, Love and Enjoy… life is just beginning!

To My Mom, My World, My Heart

May 12, 2013May 20, 2013 JoJo BayvelLeave a comment

m, mother

Your mother is always with you…
She’s the whisper of the leaves
as you walk down the street.
She’s the smell of bleach
in your freshly laundered socks.
She’s the cool hand on your brow
when you’re not well.
Your mother lives inside your laughter.
She’s crystallized in every tear drop.
She’s the place you came from,
your first home…
She’s the map you follow
with every step that you take.
She’s your first love
and your first heart break…
and nothing on earth can separate you.
Not time, Not space…
Not even death…
will ever separate you
from your mother…
You carry her inside of you…

Mom You’ve given me so much all the love from your heart
and the warmth of your touch.he gift of life and you’re friendship always
We have a very Special Bond which only comes from God…
As a child I would say Mommy I love you and today and always,with each and every new year,If I could had chosen,I would have picked no other.
Than for you…to be my lifelong friend and Precious Mother.. your strength of character, moral values and never ending selflessness are qualities I aspire to each day!

Some people glow from the inside out! That is you my mumsy. Ever and more externally beautiful but with a soul and heart that is to magnificent to describe in words.

Love Becky

Turning 31… The Cougar Phenomenon

April 24, 2013May 20, 2013 JoJo Bayvel1 Comment

Turning 31 in exactly a month so time to investigate the “cougar phenomenon” according to a few ummm male friends….lucky for me I still have 4 or so years to until I qualify as a fully fledged sugar momma as I do still appreciate the finer, aged and more experienced things in life.

Still found this interesting. So share with all those ladies you know who think they have passed their sell by date… Apparently they just need to add a few younger ingredients to extend it. Read and enjoy

Question: What is a cougar?
The short answer: A cougar is an older woman who is primarily attracted to and has sex with with significantly younger men.
Answer: The most commonly-accepted definition of a cougar is a woman 40 years of age or older who exclusively pursues very young men. The onset of the cougar years is hotly debated. Some feel that a cougar can be as young as 35, but women of this age would not be viewed as cougars unless their sexual conquests were no older than 25; the ten-year age difference seems to be an unspoken but accepted minimum between partners.
Typically, cougars prey upon men almost young enough to be their sons. Thus fortysomething cougars would be attracted to men in their 20s, and fiftysomething cougars would pursue men in their 30s and so on. Some cougars are less interested in a relationship than a sexual conquest, perhaps enjoying the fact that they are physically appealing to men who are considered to be in the prime of their virility.

A cougar may be married or unmarried, and some even go after their daughters’ boyfriends.

Although the term ‘cougar’ comes from the big-game predatory cat of the same name, the cougar connection also may allude to the wearing of animal print clothing by older and more sexually aggressive women.

An early example of the cougar phenomenon was seen in the groundbreaking film The Graduate, in which middle-aged Mrs. Robinson (Ann Bancroft) seduces fresh-out-of-college Benjamin Braddock (Dustin Hoffman).

Real-life cougar relationships include Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher (15 years), Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins (12 years), and Barbara Hershey and Naveen Andrews (21 years).

My secret garden … Meaning ….

March 22, 2013March 22, 2013 JoJo BayvelLeave a comment

Being in digital marketing & having to be active on “social media” which means I am forever posting pics, updates and comments. These are mostly “surface level” I am a really private person. Yes, an extrovert but for me to expose my true soul takes a trust rarely found… I don’t let people in …
Hence my chosen song ….
I think this is one of the most beautiful love songs ever written, probably because it is so applicable to me…. the meaning isn’t always obvious to everyone.

It’s about a woman who wants to be deeply in love with a man, but will she ever let him close enough to see the real her. She’s always that little bit scared to let her guard down, because she can’t completely trust anyone yet she is capable of a beautiful and gentle love.
She needs more from him, before she can let him all the way in. Basically like any relationship he’s got to prove that he won’t hurt her before she gives her everything to him. “But into her secret garden, don’t think twice” that’s me in a nutshell … Will I ever trust enough to fall.. I hope so … Here are the lyrics … Music video here

She’ll let you in her house
If you come knockin’ late at night
She’ll let you in her mouth if the
Words you say are right

If you pay the price
She’ll let you deep inside
But there’s a secret garden she hides

She’ll let you in her car
To go drivin’ round
She’ll let you into the parts of herself
That’ll bring you down

She’ll let you in herheart
If you got a hammer and a vise
But into her secret garden, don’t think twice

You’ve gone a million miles
How far’d you get to that place where
You can’t remember and you can’t forget

She’ll lead you down a path
There’ll be tenderness in the air
She’ll let you come just far enough
So you know she’s really there
She’ll look at you and smile
And her eyes will say
She’s got a secret garden
Where everything you want
Where everything you need
Will always stay a million miles away