I am extremely lucky to have met and forged a great friendship with these special girls over the past few years. Having several great friends that I believe would do anything for me and I know I would give a kidney, half my liver, my legs, and arms to save any of them is worth more than its weight in gold or… platinum..
My girls more like sisters now than friends….

A good friend accepts you for who you are and doesn’t make you change. Acceptance is one of the basic human needs and without it, we can’t be happy. When you find a friend who knows you and loves you anyway, that friend is worth keeping around.

A good friend is….
Someone who is always there for you when you need them, someone you can tell anything and everything, someone who buys you a drink at Pepeniro’s when you don’t have money, someone you ride taxi’s with you, someone who you do crazy things with that other people wouldnt understand, someone you can fake laugh with for hours just to create real laughs, someone who comes to this website to find crazy words for you to look up that will make you laugh so hard you almost pee your pants, someone who can make your day better just by being there, someone you ALWAYS wanna hang out with, someone you can never get sick of, someone who covers your FB page with special pics on your birthday, someone who fits in just like family, someone who can know what you’re thinking just by the look on your face, someone you have inside jokes with, someone who is really good at listening, someone who hangs out with you at work, someone you love, someone you have nicknames with that could fill up a whole paper, someone that cheers you up when you’re down, someone who is a crazy bitch but only in the best way possible, someone you can have pointless text-a-thons with everyday and never gets old, someone you laugh with, but mainly someone you can always be yourself with 🙂 ❤

Letting go is the hard part in life. letting God, when done with Faith and Hope, makes everything it easy.

We are a nation of individuals who are intent on creating, controlling, forming and pre-determining our own destinies. True to the cliche though. ” life is what happens when you are making other plans.”

I am not writing this as a means of preaching and saying sit back, relax I.e. be lazy and God will make everything perfect for you! Quite the opposite.He blessed each and every one of us with talents and abilities which enable us to reach and achieve our dreams.

I am talking about Letting Go from an emotional perspective. God has each of our hearts in the palm of His hand, he knows ever hair on our head and most important, he knows what makes us happy and what makes us sad.

Sometimes we want a situation with a boyfriend, animal or friend to just “work out” and be perfect … We pray night and day on bended knees, in the car, whilst at work and sometimes even in our sleep… When this Thing doesn’t work we blame God and decide that FAITH is simply not effective…. We get sad : ) and then as time heals all wounds we all of a sudden wake up one day and realize that what didn’t happen was the best thing that could have happened and that something or someone much better comes along … Put in our paths by Our Heavenly Daddy … And filling us with abundant joy

Okay, so in my Relationships blog I talked a little about perfection. I said there was no true definition of “perfect.” Well, I stand corrected. Perfection can only be defined through your eyes and your eyes only. Perfection is seen differently in everyone and there is no set definition.

Just because someone is not skinny, doesn’t mean they’re not beautiful. Just because someone does drugs, doesn’t mean they’re a pot head. The only way I think a person can be “perfect” is if they are willing to be vulnerable. The person is willing to show the world who they are through their faults and their strengths. Perfection doesn’t have a true definition because it will always be perceived differently by everyone.

I don’t have your mind, I don’t have your eyes, I don’t have your thoughts, your memories, your anything. But I have mines. And you have yours. We may see the same color, but we don’t “see” the same color. Or we may see the same sky, but we don’t “see” the same sky. What I see as perfect may not be seen as perfect in your eyes.

The media and the entertainment industries may have grasped an idea of what perfection is, but to me it’s not perfect because the medias’ definition of perfect seems flawed. It seems like the media is trying to force upon us what we “should” think is perfect. But it will never happen no matter how much we try because perfection is never seen the same.

I think this idea of “perfection” or being “perfect” in the media world was modified to fit the standards of someone perspective of “perfect” who has power to say what they think. I think the idea of what “perfection” truly means, and I think a key part to discovering perfection, is to live life and to be happy. Are you happy crying over how much weight you gained? Are you happy crying over a boy every girl wanted? Are you happy wasting your money on things you don’t need? Are you happy partying all the time and getting wasted? Are you happy trying to be make someone else feel bad about themselves? Are you happy for hurting people? Are you happy doing things you know you aren’t suppose to be doing?

What are you doing in your life that does not make you happy. Yes you may be part of a popular crowd or you may think something is fun because your friends are doing it, but it doesn’t mean you’ll have fun with what ever your friends do. Remember the people around you do not control your life, you do. The only way to be happy is to do things you want to do. If you want to party, you like partying, then do it. If you think you will be happy loosing a couple of pounds, then do it. Make sure you are doing the things you do for the right intentions.

The definition of “perfect” is perceived differently by everyone because we don’t have the same eyes, and I don’t truly know what you see or feel. To achieve perfection, to define perfection, you have to achieve happiness. Once you have achieved happiness fight for your happiness and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. When you find happiness, then you will find perfection. You will find out the definition of perfection — your definition of perfection.

Four in every five children hide inappropriate internet activity from their parents according to a recent study. 

Of the 400 parents and teenagers surveyed, one in three British parents make no effort to track what their child does online whilst 50 per cent admit they are confident they could track their child’s internet activity with ease. 

Behaviours like minimising internet browsers, clearing internet history and the creation of private email address are all clever tactics employed by young people in order to keep their parents from discovering their online activity. 

30.5 per cent of teenagers admitted using websites their parents would disapprove of, 25 per cent admitted searching for nude images or pornography whilst 19 per cent admitted downloading illegal or pirated music and 6 per cent had used the internet to buy alcohol or drugs. 

It was also found that less than a third of parents set controls on their child’s smartphone and only 12 per cent know the security password allowing them access to the device.

21.5 per cent of parents admitted their children are more tech savvy than they are with 11 per cent of children admitted to knowing how to turn off parental controls. 

“We believe the data will come as quite a shock to some parents, and we hope it will encourage them to take immediate action to protect their children,” EMEA CTO Raj Samani told the Telegraph. 

“It is clear that a huge gap exists between what teens are doing online, and what parents are aware of. Parents must take an active role to ensure their teens are practicing safe online behaviour.”