Debbie Lee Bayvel a journey against all odds – A Story Of A Legend Like None You Will Ever Hear –


So it begins.
I am honoured to not only be this hero’s ‘little’ sister, but to have the opportunity to be the main author of her book & life.

9 years old diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma (2% survival rate)
Chemotherapy that did not work.
Heart failure.
11 years old a secondary on her head.
My tiny angel given her death sentence.
Maybe months, weeks or days… no more.
A fighter with Faith penning a letter that with Her Daddy above she would survive.

No skull
Half a pelvis
Ribs & a piece of her lung
Veins, muscles, skin
All removed.

20 odd years in remission with one hiccup

70 major reconstructive ops some over 11 hours

1 more to go.

42 years old – ALIVE

She is whole. She is my muse. My strength. My support system. The ying to my yang. My hero. My legend.
My sister.

Debbie Lee Bayvel
Cancer warrior
Cancer survivor
Medical miracle
Faith Driven
Child of God

Thank you for choosing me. I will make you proud sis.

Love always & a day more than that

JoJo Bayvel

45 Years Of Love Sweet Love – Happy Anniversary To My Folks

45 Years Of Love Sweet Love (Sound On)

My momma Denise Bayvel & pops Paul Bayvel.
I can’t believe we all nearly forgot, but then again I guess you guys make it easy to forget that you’ve made it 45 years.

Love
Noun
a person or thing that one loves.

Marriage
A cord of three strands not quickly broken.” “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

45 years (8 together before)
A long long time.An infinity ♾

Him, my daddy, the springbok rugby player & Her my momma a beauty queen & artist.
He saw her across the field & knew she was THE ONE.

He got his girl & she got her boy & 45yrs later they are still together.

Now, proud ‘owners’ of 3 daughters + 1 Son In Law + 2 grandkids, 7 dogs & waiting for more (not dogs.)

My folks & best friends, I can’t believe you both look as handsome dad, & as beautiful as ever, mom.

You just make loving easy even when it’s hard ❤️

Through the tough times (& there are those!) you prove you stay.
Through the amazing times you have given us extraordinary memories & a glimpse at what a forever love should be.

Wishing you the happiest 45th anniversary to the most amazing folks, yip I got the best of the best.

You’ve proved that love can conquer all, as no ride through life is easy and you’ve proved that even when you don’t like each other 👀 you can still love each other.

You have honestly set the most amazing example of what that once in a lifetime, soulmate finding, goosebump inducing love can do. Perhaps you’ve set the bar a bit high as we all strive for a compatibility like yours, rather than too settle for anything less in this wonderful thing we call life.

45 years and here is to at least another 20 odd more my precious parents.

Love you always, forever and a day, a little more then that & a whole lot of lot of infinities … Becky

Half Of My Heart | My BucketList Bullmastiff Leroy Brown The Best Dog In The Whole Da=m Town

 

 

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tears pour.
our big angel doggie
collapsed yesterday.
got the gentle giant
to the vet in pjs –
only six years
old & diagnosis
doesn’t look
good.
results on monday.
say a little
for us please
Leroy owns
the half of my heart
that doesn’t
belong to Mia.
the most precious
doggie everyone
adores.
his dogs purpose
has taught me so
much.
but not enough
just yet.
for now it’s me & my big dude.

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this might be a love song but my boy, my biggest boy, I Love You!

 

#bucketlistdog
#adventures
#Bullmastiff

She Is The Ultimate Angel I Get To Call Mom

I know some of the most amazing momma’s & ladies, but without a doubt, none can compare to you Denise Bayvel

Jojo Bayvel Dee Bayvel

Not only that external beauty my most exquisite love.

It’s more that inner radiance, that selflessness, that gentleness. The way you love with all of you, the way you would do anything at anytime for not just your family but even strangers, the way I can only say YOU are the best person in this entire world

This my momsy, is what makes you the the best thing that has ever happened to me.

How blessed to be the one God chose to give his most wonderful angel on earth, as a mom to me.

I love you today, tomorrow and a little more with every passing moment.

Happy Mother’s Day – love your littlest Becky.

 

My One Day Biography | My Legend Sis

A grainy #tbt with this tiny beauty – my one day biography #muse

Debs Bayvel JoJo Bayvel

We often forget just what a conqueror you are.

My angel sister. #Hero. Legend. #Ultimate survivor.

The one who inspires me everyday.

If you need to overcome any obstacle & live life as best you can.

To defeat & not let a lifetime of pain keep you down, to have the #Faith & strength to survive terminal cancer.

To go through 60 major operations & a few minor ones.

To live imperfectly yet be so beautiful. We need only look to you. ☝🏼♥️🙏🏼

#againstallodds #inspiration #sister #legend