Are Guys Getting Too Girly?

 

Girly Guys(400x600)

First it was just about borrowing a little of our self-tanner to fake a glow, but then, soon enough, guy’s sporting orange faces became a red carpet norm. Now, there’s also boy bling, man bobs, perfectly plucked brows, and even pejazzling (google, if you must.) Has men’s grooming gone too far into the repertoire of women’s beauty moves? Let’s break down the recent surge of not-so manly tendencies.

Man Jewelry

Guys have been rocking earrings long before Justin Bieber was born. However, for the new crop of young twenty-somethings (or in Bieber’s case 17-somethings), the latest trend has turned to studs on steroids. Unfortunately though, when a guy’s bling is bigger than mine it comes off less as sexy and more as sleazy.

Check out which celebs wear man jewelry!

Man-ing

Another male beauty no-no: man tanning, otherwise known as man-ing. Leonardo DiCaprio’s recent tanning disaster, in which he showed up to the premiere of his new film, J. Edgar with an orange-y glow is a big reminder as to why men need to stay out of the tanning beds. If a guy’s unnatural coloring looks like it would be acceptable on the Jersey Shore, he might want to think again.

Check out Celebrity Man Bobs!

Man or..Woman?

While Leo lies on one end of the spectrum, Australian model, Andrej Pejic, sits at the opposite end with his porcelain-smooth fair skin. The model has taken the industry by storm with his super feminine features and ability to model for both mens’ and womens’ wear. His unique look has taken androgyny to a whole new level by keeping people guessing on whether he’s a man or woman. And although it’s great to be kept on your toes when dating a guy, his sex is one thing I shouldn’t have to question.

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Man Nail Polish

It seems as though there’s a new breed of dude on the rise and while I’m hesitant to call him a “beauty bro”, the term “metrosexual” just doesn’t seem strong enough. When I saw that Los Angeles-based grooming company EvolutionMan had come out with a nail polish collection for guys, my first thought was “Nail polish? For men? AHA, good luck marketing that!” Apparently though, joke’s on me. Over the past few weeks the two-time winning Sexiest Man Alive (Johnny Depp, duh) did something very unsexy. He hit the red carpet sporting bright blue nails. Call me crazy, but there are a few beauty products I’d be willing to share with my guy. Nail polish is not one of them.

And while I thought this whole manly nail polish fad was just a part of Depp’s “mysterious” persona, looks like I was wrong. Even NBA megastar Dwayne Wade recently admitted that he likes to paint his nails.

“‘Three years ago I was like, ‘Man, I kind of want to paint my toenails black…At first I thought, ‘Nah, I can’t do that. They’re going to kill me. But eventually I decided to try it,'” he said in an interview with GQ.

Really, 2006 Sports Illustrated Sportsman of the Year? All I have to ask is, why? I know guys often hear that they need to tap into their sensitive sides and express themselves, but c’mon. This is just too much.

Maybe I’m old-fashioned in wanting a manly man who doesn’t borrow my nail polish, hit the tanning salon, or go for a pejazzling (seriously, wasn’t vajazzling bad enough?), but is that really too much to ask for?

Tell me what you think in the comments below!

Gareth Cliff’s Open Letter to Government…. honest, open and true to what we are all feeling at present

 

Here is Gareth Cliff’s open letter to govt if you haven’t read it…This should be circulated and shared with every South African as to put it bluntly Gareth says what we are all afraid to feel or say.

very honest and heartfelt and I think he puts to paper what a lot of people are feeling right now. A perfect government we’ll never have… honestly, we need to start somewhere. For me, the biggest issue he raises is education. What’s the biggest issue for you?

Zodwa Kumalo-Valentine

12th October, 2010

Dear Government

OK, I get it, the President isn’t the only one in charge. The ANC believes in “collective responsibility” (So that nobody has to get blamed when things get screwed up), so I address this to everyone in government – the whole lot of you – good, bad and ugly (That’s you, Blade).

We were all so pleased with your renewed promises to deliver services (we’ll forgive the fact that in some places people are worse off than in 1994); to root out corruption (so far your record is worse than under Mbeki, Mandela or the Apartheid regime – what with family members becoming overnight millionaires); and build infrastructure (State tenders going disgustingly awry and pretty stadia standing empty notwithstanding) – and with the good job you did when FIFA were telling you what to do for a few months this year. Give yourselves half a pat on the back. Since President Sepp went off with his billions I’m afraid we have less to be proud of – Public Servants Strikes, more Presidential bastard children, increasing unemployment and a lack of leadership that allowed the Unions to make the elected government it’s bitch. You should be more than a little worried – but you’re not. Hence my letter. Here are some things that might have passed you by:

1. You have to stop corruption. Don’t stop it because rich people moan about it and because it makes poor people feel that you are self-enriching parasites of state resources, but because it is a disease that will kill us all. It’s simple – there is only so much money left to be plundered. When that money runs out, the plunderers will raise taxes, chase and drain all the remaining cash out of the country and be left with nothing but the rotting remains of what could have been the greatest success story of post-colonial Africa. It’s called corruption because it decomposes the fabric of society. When someone is found guilty of corruption, don’t go near them – it’s catchy. Making yourself rich at the country’s expense is what colonialists do.

2. Stop complaining about the media. You’re only complaining about them because they show you up for how little you really do or care. If you were trying really hard, and you didn’t drive the most expensive car in the land, or have a nephew who suddenly went from modesty to ostentatious opulence, we’d have only positive things to report. Think of Jay Naidoo, Geraldine Fraser-Moleketi and Zwelinzima Vavi – they come under a lot of fire, but it’s never embarrassing – always about their ideas, their positions, and is perfectly acceptable criticism for people in power to put up with. When the media go after Blade Nzimande, Siphiwe Nyanda and the President, they say we need a new piece of legislation to “make the media responsible”. That’s because they’re being humiliated by the facts we uncover about them daily, not because there is an agenda in some newsroom. If there had been a free press during the reigns of Henry VIII, Idi Amin or Hitler, their regimes might just have been kept a little less destructive, and certainly would have been less brazen and unchecked.

3. Education is a disaster. We’re the least literate and numerate country in Africa. Zimbabwe produces better school results and turns out smarter kids than we do. Our youth aren’t usemployed, they’re unemployable. Outcomes-based-education, Teachers’ Unions and an attitude of mediocrity that discourages excellence have reduced us to a laughing stock. Our learners can’t spell, read, add or subtract. What are all these people going to do? Become President? There’s only one job like that. We need clever people, not average or stupid ones. the failure of the Education Department happened under your watch. Someone who writes Matric now hadn’t even started school under the Apartheid regime, so you cannot blame anyone but yourselves for this colossal cock-up. Fix it before three-quarters of our matrics end up begging on Oxford Road. Reward schools and teachers who deliver great pass rates and clever students into the system. Fire the teachers who march and neglect their classrooms.

4. Give up on BEE. It isn’t working. Free shares for new black partnerships in old white companies has made everyone poorer except for Tokyo Sexwale. Giving people control of existing business won’t make more jobs either. In fact, big companies aren’t growing, they’re reducing staff and costs. The key is entrepreneurship. People with initiative, creative ideas and small companies must be given tax breaks and assistance. Young black professionals must be encouraged to start their own businesses rather than join a big corporation’s board as their token black shareholder or director. Government must also stop thinking that state employment is a way to decrease unemployment – it isn’t – it’s a tax burden. India and China are churning out new, brilliant, qualified people at a rate that makes us look like losers. South Africa has a proud history of innovation, pioneering and genius. This is the only way we can advance our society and economy beyond merely coping.

5. Stop squabbling over power. Offices are not there for you to occupy (or be deployed to) and aggrandize yourself. Offices in government are there to provide a service. If you think outrageous salaries, big German cars, first-class travel and state housing are the reasons to aspire to leadership, you’re in the wrong business – you should be working for a dysfunctional, tumbledown parastatal (or Glenn Agliotti). We don’t care who the Chairperson of the National Council of Provinces is if we don’t have running water, electricity, schools and clean streets. You work for us. Do your job, don’t imagine you ARE your job.

6. Stop renaming things. Build new things to name. If I live in a street down which the sewage runs, I don’t care if it’s called Hans Strijdom or Malibongwe. Calling it something nice and new won’t make it smell nice and new. Re-branding is something Cell C do with Trevor Noah, not something you can whitewash your lack of delivery with.

7. Don’t think you’ll be in power forever. People aren’t as stupid as you think we are. We know you sit around laughing about how much you get away with. We’ll take you down, either at the polls – or if it comes down to the wire – by revolution (Yes, Julius, the real kind, not the one you imagine happened in 2008). Careless, wasteful and wanton government is a thing of the past. The days of thin propaganda and idealized struggle are over. The people put you in power – they will take you out of it. Africa is tired of tin-pot dictators, one-party states and banana republics. We know who we are now, we care about our future – and so should you.

G

 

Source: http://www.garethcliff.com

Words have failed me, for once. Dutch our legend Bullmastiff left us yesterday 01.10.2011

Our gentle giant….

Heartbroken, shattered and gutted. An empty house and empty hearts. We had to let you go our BIG boy… selfishness was not an option. You had been to good to us; and to those you met to let you suffer…. the toughest choice, a tragic moment. You are free now boy, of sickness and pain.

You remain in our hearts and will do so in every part of our daily activities, as you were the centre of our world. This video is a little tribute to you our precious boy. The background song, came on the radio just before we let you go… not by chance but your way of saying ” Tears stream down your face, when you lose something you cannot replace”… BUT ” I (Dutch) will try to Fix you”…. we say this from us boy “Lights will guide you home”(to Doggy Heaven” )”and ignite your bones ” so you can be the ambling, clumsy, boy you were……

Memories are all we have now…. not enough to ease our  shattered souls but a part of you we can keep forever…. how I wish i could reach into the picture and touch that soft fur or stroke that beautiful head….. for now we remember and love