Turning 31… The Cougar Phenomenon

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Turning 31 in exactly a month so time to investigate the “cougar phenomenon” according to a few ummm male friends….lucky for me I still have 4 or so years to until I qualify as a fully fledged sugar momma as I do still appreciate the finer, aged and more experienced things in life.

Still found this interesting. So share with all those ladies you know who think they have passed their sell by date… Apparently they just need to add a few younger ingredients to extend it. Read and enjoy

Question: What is a cougar?
The short answer: A cougar is an older woman who is primarily attracted to and has sex with with significantly younger men.
Answer: The most commonly-accepted definition of a cougar is a woman 40 years of age or older who exclusively pursues very young men. The onset of the cougar years is hotly debated. Some feel that a cougar can be as young as 35, but women of this age would not be viewed as cougars unless their sexual conquests were no older than 25; the ten-year age difference seems to be an unspoken but accepted minimum between partners.
Typically, cougars prey upon men almost young enough to be their sons. Thus fortysomething cougars would be attracted to men in their 20s, and fiftysomething cougars would pursue men in their 30s and so on. Some cougars are less interested in a relationship than a sexual conquest, perhaps enjoying the fact that they are physically appealing to men who are considered to be in the prime of their virility.

A cougar may be married or unmarried, and some even go after their daughters’ boyfriends.

Although the term ‘cougar’ comes from the big-game predatory cat of the same name, the cougar connection also may allude to the wearing of animal print clothing by older and more sexually aggressive women.

An early example of the cougar phenomenon was seen in the groundbreaking film The Graduate, in which middle-aged Mrs. Robinson (Ann Bancroft) seduces fresh-out-of-college Benjamin Braddock (Dustin Hoffman).

Real-life cougar relationships include Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher (15 years), Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins (12 years), and Barbara Hershey and Naveen Andrews (21 years).

Oneday,Someday…If Only I Had The Perfect Proposal Story & Wedding To Plan

Yes Baby Daily has launched!

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Selecting leading South African wedding service providers and products, and connects them with their members by delivering exclusive discounts and quality special offers.

The site provides a selection of hand-picked bridal offers on everything from venues, photographers, honeymoon travel, apparel, gifts and accessories to pre-event spa days, supplies, and décor. All things wedding: as long as it’s on-trend, high-end and meets the curator quality criteria.

And in true YesBaBy style they are kicking off the Facebook page with a competition!

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“Like our page http://www.facebook.com/YesBabyDaily, inbox us your Romantic Proposal Story & if we think He did it Best, you could win a surprise five star weekend away! T &C’s apply.

P.S we do love pics at YesBabyDaily #JustSaying”

Oneday, Someday…

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Selling A Baby On Gumtree.. The Internet Can Be A Dangerous Place

A Cape Town woman has placed an ad on Gumtree looking for someone to adopt her baby.

According to Eyewitness News, the woman states that she wants to give up her baby at birth due to financial reasons and school commitments.

The Kuils River woman is 24-years-old and two months pregnant.

The ad has already received 50 visits. It was unclear on Tuesday morning if the ad was still on the classifieds website.

However, officials from the Western Cape social development department said the ad was illegal and that the Children’s Act prohibits parents from putting children up for adoption in the media.

MEC Albert Fritz said if the mother wanted to give up the baby for adoption, she had to go through the department.

“She will not be paid for giving the child up for adoption. The Adoption Act does however make provisions for reasonable medical expenses pertaining to the pregnancy if you follow the proper channels.”

Attempts to contact the woman were not successful.

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